It Is Painful To Be Separated From Those You Love

August 21st, 2010

How can I describe this fully?  It should be so easy to simply write to people telling them that being separated from someone you love is painful.

I find myself wanting to try to make it extra clear.

When a couple gets married and they love each other holding one another every night, seeing each other every morning, greeting one another with hugs & kisses as much as possible they get that special bond.  When they spend time together, taking walks, bike riding, seeing the sunset, having a picnic, and just sitting alone together in their favorite cushy chair or sofa they’ve learned to enjoy one another with no one else around.  It’s special  and those moments are treasured.

When one of them is sent off to war and that person doesn’t come back home for a long time the one that is left behind is aching.  Worse yet if the person sent to war never comes back home because they died  the emptiness for their mate seems almost unbearable.

Forget all about that young love stuff they call puppy love.  Yeah, the puppy love thing  is traumatic enough for some young people.  Even they think their sorrow is so large they will never get over the pain of being separated from their crush.

Anyone that has ever loved someone and been separated from that person knows exactly what I’m trying to say here.  It is painful to be separated from those you love.

God is love.  People that don’t know Him will be separated from the one who is love. If a person neglects to come to know the Saviour they will always have a void within.  The emptiness that comes to them will always be there.  Until they fully give their life over to God accepting the free gift of salvation they will know an emptiness at times. 

I have a friend that has to see her Mother grieving over the loss of her Father. I have a couple of other friends that are going through a divorce.  These people are sad right now and their future may continue to hold grievous times of sadness and pain because of the separations they are going through.

If you know anything about this kind of pain you will want to do everything possible to make sure you have accepted Jesus Christ into your heart as your personal Lord & Savior.  You will also want all your loved ones to know Jesus is Lord, too.

I pray that you will have just the right words to try to describe to them the importance of them spending some time talking with the God of the whole universe while there is time for them to repent & get right with God.

Many confess that they believe in God.  Many even speak about Jesus as if they’ve loved & known Him all their lives but it doesn’t mean a thing if they have not repented of their sins. 

Jesus said, “Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”  His kingdom is not of this world.  His kingdom is the place talked about in the book of Revelation.  [Mark 4:17, 17From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.] There is going to be a new heaven and a new earth.  [Rev. 21:1-2, 1And I saw a new heaven and a new earth: for the first heaven and the first earth were passed away; and there was no more sea. 2And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.]

[Rev. 21:3-8,3And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God. 4And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.5And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful.6And he said unto me, It is done. I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life freely.7He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son.8But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.]

The unbelievers will not be in a pleasant place.  Don’t be fooled into thinking God is going to neglect to deal with  those who only pretended to know Him. 

Pray you can find a way to tell the people God puts in your path the love story.  Jesus died on the cross for your sins.  Those who really believe in Him can receive salvation.  You will know who really believes in Him by the things they do.  You will know them by their fruit.

If they’ve known the pain of losing people they love and they dearly miss the ones they love let them know that the pain they feel over losing a loved one to death or divorce is not even close to the pain that will be felt by those who don’t choose to accept Jesus Christ as their Savior & Lord.  Being separated from God is being separated from the one who loves us best.

The Psalms Say The Lord Is Good & His Love Endures Forever

August 20th, 2010

I read from Psalms today. In the Psalms I found reminders to thank the Lord for He is good and His love endures forever. Here are notes about God:

 

He thinks about you.

He is our light.

He gives success.

We pray and He hears our prayers.

He is for us.

He will help us.

We have no need to fear.

It is better to trust in God than men.

He answers prayers.

God saves us with His might.

He blesses us.

He is our helper.

He is our shield.

He rescues us.

He is good.

His love endures forever.

 

Mark 4:35-5:20 (King James Version)

August 18th, 2010

35And the same day, when the even was come, he saith unto them, Let us pass over unto the other side. 36And when they had sent away the multitude, they took him even as he was in the ship. And there were also with him other little ships. 37And there arose a great storm of wind, and the waves beat into the ship, so that it was now full. 38And he was in the hinder part of the ship, asleep on a pillow: and they awake him, and say unto him, Master, carest thou not that we perish? 39And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm. 40And he said unto them, Why are ye so fearful? how is it that ye have no faith? 41And they feared exceedingly, and said one to another, What manner of man is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?

Mark 5

 1And they came over unto the other side of the sea, into the country of the Gadarenes. 2And when he was come out of the ship, immediately there met him out of the tombs a man with an unclean spirit, 3Who had his dwelling among the tombs; and no man could bind him, no, not with chains: 4Because that he had been often bound with fetters and chains, and the chains had been plucked asunder by him, and the fetters broken in pieces: neither could any man tame him. 5And always, night and day, he was in the mountains, and in the tombs, crying, and cutting himself with stones. 6But when he saw Jesus afar off, he ran and worshipped him, 7And cried with a loud voice, and said, What have I to do with thee, Jesus, thou Son of the most high God? I adjure thee by God, that thou torment me not. 8For he said unto him, Come out of the man, thou unclean spirit. 9And he asked him, What is thy name? And he answered, saying, My name is Legion: for we are many. 10And he besought him much that he would not send them away out of the country. 11Now there was there nigh unto the mountains a great herd of swine feeding. 12And all the devils besought him, saying, Send us into the swine, that we may enter into them. 13And forthwith Jesus gave them leave. And the unclean spirits went out, and entered into the swine: and the herd ran violently down a steep place into the sea, (they were about two thousand;) and were choked in the sea. 14And they that fed the swine fled, and told it in the city, and in the country. And they went out to see what it was that was done. 15And they come to Jesus, and see him that was possessed with the devil, and had the legion, sitting, and clothed, and in his right mind: and they were afraid. 16And they that saw it told them how it befell to him that was possessed with the devil, and also concerning the swine. 17And they began to pray him to depart out of their coasts. 18And when he was come into the ship, he that had been possessed with the devil prayed him that he might be with him. 19Howbeit Jesus suffered him not, but saith unto him, Go home to thy friends, and tell them how great things the Lord hath done for thee, and hath had compassion on thee. 20And he departed, and began to publish in Decapolis how great things Jesus had done for him: and all men did marvel.

 

I John 3:8

August 18th, 2010

 8He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.

God Is Our Provider

August 17th, 2010

This morning I was reminded of something my oldest son said to me one day.

I don’t know what prompted him to say it but his words were right on.  He said, “Mom,  I know I will never be able to repay you or Dad for all the good things you have done for me.”

When I thought about that today I knew my heart wanted and did say the same thing to our Heavenly Father.  We cannot repay Him for all He does for us.

Words cannot fully express the gratitude we  have when we recognize that God sent His Son, Jesus, to die on the cross for us.  He paid the debt He did not owe.  The love of our Father cannot be repaid.  He doesn’t expect us to repay Him any more than our parents should expect us to repay them for the good things they’ve done for us.

1 Reply For Constance

August 17th, 2010

A comment was left from someone after they read about letting go of children.  I will post a reply once I feel I have something from the Bible to share with them here. 

I do not leave comments placed on this site unless I know the person by name because of spam.

Here is a comment I found written by Constance:

Wow – am a Christian – found this by accident today. Just what I needed! Having to learn the hard way about letting married daughter go but does God have any comfort for parents about this stage in their lives? would appreciate Christian comment.

************* God sends forth His Holy Spirit as a comforter and teacher.  God’s Word is what gives me comfort during times of sorrow. 

I know it’s hard to let go of our children.  I gave birth to 5 children and had to let go of one because he died on the day of his birth.  I had no choice in that matter.  His death made me cling to trying to nurture, teach, and bless the other children as much as possible. 

After we give them all that love & attention then we are instructed to let them go and that is so hard.  Letting them go does not mean forgetting to pray for them or neglecting to be led by God to help them in certain ways while we still reside on earth.  I believe letting them go and releasing them to God means we quit trying to physically fight their battles for them.

I’ve seen how it harms a child when the parent just won’t take their hands off of their child’s life.  If the parent keeps panning out money to help the child they usually keep the child from learning how to rely on God fully.  If the parent keeps trying to get involved when the child has marital battles or other battles it is again like trying to tear down a brick wall with your own hands.  Children must learn to trust God for the sustenance.  How many times must we be reminded  that God is the one who supplies our needs?  Parents will not ever be able to do everything for their adult children.  It is clearly impossible for a parent to do for a child what only God can do. 

If you let go of your child(ren) and pray for them when you see a need you are actually taking a step of faith.  If you refuse to make them learn how to obtain sustenance from God it is possible you will become the one that enables them to think you are their provider instead of the Lord of all.  Can you take the place of the Lord in their life?  Are you able to meet their every need?

Who will take care of them if it happens that you leave this earth before they do?  If they leave this earth before you will you know that you did your best & you trusted God with the rest?

 

PARENTS SHOULD ALWAYS RECALL THAT ONCE A ADULT CHILD IS MARRIED THAT CHILD IS NOT SUPPOSED TO CLING TO THE PARENTS.  THE BIBLE SAYS THE MAN & WOMAN ARE SUPPOSED TO CLING TO ONE ANOTHER.  HOW MANY MARRIAGES ARE SPOILED BECAUSE A PARENT GETS TOO INVOLVED IN THE LIFE OF THEIR NEWLYWED CHILDREN?

Make a special note of the fact that when friends & family get involved in the lives of their adult children because they see abuse then it is not the same thing as getting involved in bad ways.  When there is abuse do say everything you can & do all you can to protect those who are being harmed.

Domestic Violence is a horrible thing.  It is happening in too many homes.  Please pray that something will be done to stop the abuse going on in so many homes.  There are  women & children that are being abused emotionally, spiritually, and physically on a daily basis. 

 

Do You Love Jesus?

August 14th, 2010

Read these words & read God’s Word then decide for yourself, Do you really really love Jesus? :

Very powerful words – He will help us with anything we need help with. Of course He will handle all things in perfect ways & His ways are higher than ours. To be reminded that IF WE LOVE HIM WE WILL KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS IS POWERFUL!!! Does this mean that those who are not keeping His commandments do not love Him?

 John 14:11-17, “11Believe me that I am in the Father, and the Father in me: or else believe me for the very works’ sake.12Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father.13And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.14If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it.15If ye love me, keep my commandments.16And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever;17Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.”

MUST SEE THIS

August 13th, 2010

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvDDc5RB6FQ

O HOW HE LOVES US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abandonment

August 11th, 2010

I just told friends that I am saying a prayer for those who have gone through abandonment. 

Some people think abandoment only happens when someone physically picks up and leaves.  What they do not always understand is abandonment comes in many forms.

I’ve found many people who have suffered what it’s like to have someone withdraw their love, duty, support, or kindness from them.  When someone withdraws their love from the other person they are abandoning them.  This abandonment can happen even when people are living together. 

A woman leaves her husband or a husband leaves the wife but if you hear both sides of the story you are apt to find that they separated long before anyone physically left the marital home.  The woman may have left in the physical sense but the man may have left her feeling as though he abandoned her long before she walked out the door.

A child may be left to take care of responsibilities at home while the parents busy themselves with a career.  If the child is not given the support they need and if the responsibility left on their shoulders is too difficult of a task they may feel abandoned and overwhelmed.

A family may suffer the loss of a family member due to death or divorce.  Their church family may not bother to call them or check on them.  They will probably also feel abandoned.

In Isaiah 54 God basically tells us that God will be the Husband that takes care of us.  There may have been times in life when we felt distressed in spirit or abandoned.  God says to us that He knows about our times of rejection and He will bring us back.  He will have compassion on us.

Isaiah 54:5-8 “For your Maker is your husband—
       the LORD Almighty is his name—
       the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
       he is called the God of all the earth. The LORD will call you back
       as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit—
       a wife who married young,
       only to be rejected,” says your God.”For a brief moment I abandoned you,
       but with deep compassion I will bring you back.In a surge of anger
       I hid my face from you for a moment,
       but with everlasting kindness
       I will have compassion on you,”
       says the LORD your Redeemer.”

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Isaiah 54:5-8

August 11th, 2010

“For your Maker is your husband—
       the LORD Almighty is his name—
       the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
       he is called the God of all the earth.The LORD will call you back
       as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit—
       a wife who married young,
       only to be rejected,” says your God. ”For a brief moment I abandoned you,
       but with deep compassion I will bring you back.In a surge of anger
       I hid my face from you for a moment,
       but with everlasting kindness
       I will have compassion on you,”
       says the LORD your Redeemer.”