If you read from I Corinthians Chapter13 you will be reading the Love Chapter.
1Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
2And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
3And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
4Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
9For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
10But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
11When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
13And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
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I met a group of people that love the Lord. They also found out that there are abusive people who use the Word of God to try to trap people in relationships or marriages. These unGodly people are expecting the ones that love the Lord to follow God’s Word but they do not plan on following God’s Word themselves. Here are some things the decent people are telling one another so they know it is not God’s will for people to stay in abusive relationships:
Love is not abusive. (Love does not behave itself unseemly.)
Love does not demand it’s own way. (Love seeketh not her own.)
Love does not threaten harm. (Love is kind.)
Love does not rant and rave. (Love is patient & kind.)
Love does not criticize in order to puff self up. (Love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up.)
Love does not blame the other person for things you do that are wrong. (Love rejoiceth in the truth & is kind. Love rejoiceth not in inquity.)
Love does not justify wrong doing. (Love rejoiceth not in iniquity.)
Love does not bruise bodies, hit/strike people, throw things at you, push you around, bully you, break things. (Love is kind.)
Love does not tell lies. (Love rejoiceth in the truth.) Love is honest.
Love does not manipulate words &/or circumstances to try to get it’s own way. (Love seeketh not her own.)
Love does not easily get angry. (Love is not easily provoked.)
Love does not show love one minute & contempt a few minutes later. (Love is faithful.)
********************** IF someone tells you they love you yet they treat you in a manner that does not prove they are walking in love walk away from them. You do not have to take the abuse.